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18 May 2008, 06:36 PM
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Body Language
What is body language
Every time you are face to face with another human being you speaks to them through your body. The body has many ways to communicate: lavish gestures like waving, movements such as changes in the way we stand or sit, or in the position and the directions of the head and eyes, as well as facial expressions and even the tiniest twitch of a muscle. Why we trust and distrust people There are people you like the moment you meet them. Before even they begin talking they seem friendly and trust worthy. But what about the opposite experience? You’ve probably also had the feeling that you didn’t trust someone when you first began talking to them. The fact that you like or dislike someone doesn’t always seem to make sense. What’s being said may sound fine in both cases, but your brain is telling you something about the other person. You’ve got a gut feeling. If you like them, it is because they are sending out all the ‘right’ signals. If something seems wrong, it is probably because their verbal and nonverbal messages are different. They may have made some tiny involuntary movement that is giving a different message from what they are saying. Probably neither of you realizes consciously what has happened, but you have picked up the discrepancy Between what they are saying and doing. Nature verses Nurture Nature: Some gestures seems to be innate. We do not learn them but they have developed in us as part of our unconscious animal behaviour. The primary emotions such as fear and happiness are pretty much universal wherever we go. Likewise blushing is a sigh of embarrassment in all cultures. Shrugging and smiling are also universal gestures. Nurture: Some gestures are learned as part of our social and cultural conditioning. They may be learned by us because of expectation about how a woman or a man should behave within a culture. These tend to be obvious to us. It is easy to notice when another person is behaving outside the norms of society’s expectations. For example, how you are expected to eat a meal or sit vary in different cultures. Other gestures are used automatically. You will have an unconscious reaction to the automatic gesture of another person and are unlikely to analyse their meaning. Personal signatures Some gestures are unique to an individual, who will use them habitually. These are knows as signature gestures. Impersonators on TV pick up on these immediately so that the viewer knows at once who is being imitated. Prince Charles Often fiddles with his shirt cufflinks before facing a crowed of people, betraying his nervousness. He also rubs his ear lobe when he is self-conscious. Prince William Straightens his tie when he is about to walk in front of an audience. He marks a threshold between his private space and being in public. Adolf Hitler Often adopted a fig-leaf pose, standing with his hands in front oh his crotch. Prince Diana Looked at people through her eyelashes with her head turned down. Roger Moore Is known for raising a single eyebrow. Groucho Marx Painted on eyebrows that he raised and lowered to make us laugh. written by Carolyn Boyes Best wishes Eva
التعديل الأخير تم بواسطة EVA ; 18 May 2008 الساعة 09:34 PM. 
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19 May 2008, 04:00 PM
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21 May 2008, 06:59 PM
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22 May 2008, 10:52 PM
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27 May 2008, 10:38 AM
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Thnk you very moch |
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